Anderson (2018) says that while our decisions about consequences feel “private,” they are also “public” because they impact other people in the school—so teachers should consider how their discipline decisions might affect the broader school community. How, practically, might you coordinate with other teachers?
I agree with Anderson that choosing consequences should be grounded in reason rather than emotion ((2018, pg.32). When we respond emotionally, we risk making inconsistent or punitive decisions that don’t support long-term growth for students. Instead, acting with clear reasoning allows us to remain fair, predictable, and supportive of student development. The best way to establish that reasoning is through collaborative, reflective practices.
A Professional Learning Community (PLC) is an ideal structure to help ensure consistency in our responses to student behaviour. Within a PLC, teachers at the same grade level or even across adjacent grades can align on shared expectations, discuss appropriate consequences, and analyze the effectiveness of their approaches. This helps eliminate the guessing or personal bias that sometimes creeps into discipline decisions, and it ensures students experience consistency, even when they move between classrooms, and/or have supply coverages.
Practically, during my previous practicums I observed coordinating with other teachers could involve:
Regular PLC meetings to review behaviour trends, share strategies, and refine school-wide or grade-level expectations.
Creating a shared behaviour matrix that outlines consistent consequences for common misbehaviours, ensuring equity across classrooms.
Reflective discussions where teachers explore what’s working, what’s not, and how their decisions impact both individual students and the broader classroom environment.
Coordinating across different grade levels working with teachers in the grade above and below to build developmental consistency in behaviour expectations and consequences.
Ongoing reflective practice within the PLC is essential. It allows us to ask important questions:
Are our consequences helping students learn?
Are they fair and consistent?
What message are we sending to the rest of the class?
As Anderson (2018) pointed out consequences are public, they send a message not only to the student involved but to the entire class, and sometime extends to the entire school. Therefore, choosing the right response requires understanding both the limits and possibilities of consequences. They can guide, teach, and reinforce expectations, but they won’t “fix” behaviour in isolation. Consistency, collaboration, and reason-based decision-making are what ultimately lead to a positive school culture. I find this connects closely to Peter Nelmes’ TEDx talk, where he explains that challenging behaviour is really a way for students to communicate (Youtube, 2019). When students act out, it often means they’re feeling things like frustration, fear, or confusion; but they don’t know how to say it in words. Nelmes pointed that if teachers take the time to understand why a student is acting a certain way, instead of just reacting we need to rethink, it can make a big difference (Youtube, 2019, 11:19). This can be accomplished by asking meaningful questions as educators engage in reflective practices coordinating with one another. Ultimately guiding us to build relationships in our own classroom establishing our own unique classroom management strategies for the students.
Nelmes’ message reminds us that when teachers respond with care and collaborate, we create a school environment where all students feel understood and supported, even when they display challenging behaviours. By ensuring consequences are appropriate and fair, we help students learn from their actions and grow. Together, the school community plays a vital role in helping every student strive for success.
"Kids don't learn from people they don't like."
—Rita Pierson
Week 4
In my future classrooms, my personal management system will be grounded in proactive planning, authentic relationships, and meaningful student engagement. These elements are tightly interconnected: well-planned, relevant instruction boosts engagement, and engagement reduces the need for reactive discipline. But even more importantly, I recognize that classroom management begins with empathy.
In my last practicum, students expressed frustration like, “It’s not fair! Others are cheating the system” or “School is just a prison.” Their words reminded me that many students carry past educational trauma, and that not every child enters the classroom ready and willing to learn. Which is the reactive piece Teaching Tolerance (2016) explained derived from teachers thinking when they expect children to show and be ready to learn. Rita Pierson’s (2013) message, “Kids don’t learn from people they don’t like,” resonates deeply with me. I must first connect with my students, understand their experiences, and create a space where they feel safe, seen, and respected.
I will use evidence-based practices with care guiding students to worry more about making it right, crafting real meanings for the Social Emotional Qualities (Shalaby, 2020, pg.44). For example we would be co-constructing classroom expectations/norms, implementing restorative conversations, and integrating Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) routines. In addition, strategies mentioned in Fair and Predictable Consequences and The Bump Theory such as low-key strategies like proximity, redirection, and private check-ins will allow me to address behaviour without escalating tension. My aim is not just to manage behaviour, but to transform student attitudes; which means making school a place students want to be, not just a place they have to be.
This system aligns with my belief that every student deserves to feel that school is meaningful, fair, and full of opportunity because they look forward to what we are going to do for the next class.
Through my reflection as an educator in training, I’ve come to recognize that I, too, am a learner. This journey toward becoming a qualified educator in Ontario has not only deepened my understanding of how students learn, but has also shaped my own growth and identity within the profession. Teaching and learning are inextricably linked where one cannot happen meaningfully without the other.
I constantly find myself navigating the “What” of Teacher Education: What does it mean to teach? To lead learning? To respond to diverse student needs? These questions have guided my evolving understanding that knowledge is not fixed, but co-constructed through relationships and lived experience. As I build knowledge about learners and learning, I see how some areas of my practice feel more developed than others, and that’s okay! Growth must be responsive to my unique path and experiences.
Understanding that each student brings their own cultural background, knowledge, and identity into the classroom has taught me that effective teaching begins with listening and observing. The “funds of knowledge” framework has helped me connect curriculum to students’ lives while also challenging me to reflect on my own assumptions and biases.
My practicum and coursework have shown me that learning is relational and context-dependent for my students and for me. I’ve learned that safe, inclusive spaces are vital for risk-taking and reflection. As I continue growing, I carry the belief that to teach well is to keep learning, and that requires me to consciously always remember to learn with humility, curiosity, and care.